In ancient
Greece the coming of age process included learning martial arts, hunting and
entering the military. Feats I would consider far more demanding than our
modern process. Why's it so tough then? Growing up, abandoning your childish
ways and finally realizing you're just about ready to become an adult seems so
irrelevant at first. Somewhere along the way, however, it becomes one of the
most emotionally confusing and strenuous times of your life. Angst is
undoubtedly a defining feature of the coming of age process in the western
world. Everybody, from childhood through adolescents up to adulthood feels, at
some point, angst. Adolescence in particular is an emotional
clusterfuck of angst, stress and eventually – potentially – apathy. Bare in
mine this is pertaining almost exclusively too the westernized societies. Why
is that? It’s because of the process of progressing into adulthood. It is slow
and there is no guidelines set in stone telling you kill this, eat that, do
this, do that now you’re an adult. I feel that in an attempt to give
adolescents freedom and allow them to pave their own paths the feeling of angst
was born. Children, too quickly given the right of way to be adults are
overwhelmed by what it takes to be one. That toppled with vague ideas of what
it means to be successful or what it means to fail simply adds to the
confusion. It’s that endless question of “when is it going to end” and the
self-reassuring: “I’m going to make it through this” that gives room for angst
and these two thoughts at some point flow through the minds of every teen’s head. The National Institute of Mental Health report that half of mental
illnesses arise at the age of 14. This time of one’s life is a physical and
emotional hell, filled with puberty, hormones and acne. Is it really any wonder
that children have trouble coping and angst arises? If it’s not boredom its
angst, if it’s not stress its apathy. Emotions run wild when you’re a teen and
often you’re unaware of it until you’ve reached that long sought out adulthood.
Therefore any child with the feeling of angst should be aware in modern,
western society it’s a defining part of the coming of age process and it too
shall pass. Shortly after the acne outbreaks decrease and the growth spurts end
so will that feeling.
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